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My Definition of Success

If you want to be successful in life, as a human being, as a soul… Figure out what “love” looks like, feels like, and means to you — And then be an example of love as much as possible to yourself and everyone around you. That’s it. Everything else is just details. Our careers and…

WHY > WHAT

WHY > WHAT Message to myself today: If you want more love and joy in your life, it’s not “what” you do that matters as much as “why” you’re doing it. The same activity with a different intention or motivation can be a profoundly different experience. One way can be joyful, another way miserable. Doing…

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Share Your Gift

Everyone’s unique. It’s supposed to be that way. Focus on your strengths. Who are you naturally? What do you do joyfully, easily, automatically, abundantly when you’re just being yourself? What are YOU passionate about? Those are your gifts. Just because something’s natural or easy for you doesn’t mean it is for everybody else. They have…

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Rules for Playing Big in Life

1. Playing big means thinking big. 2. You can do what hasn’t been done before. 3. You don’t need permission to be, do, have, or experience what you want, so long as it’s moral, ethical, and legal. 4. You define your own rules and boundaries. 5. The word “impossible” is irrelevant. Something is only difficult…

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When Making Decisions, Ask Myself…

When making decisions, ask myself “who do I want to become?” Life is about growing, learning, self-evolving, as well as loving and experiencing joy. So it’s better to ask myself “who” I want to become — rather than “what” I think I’m supposed to do or have — and make any important decisions from there.

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Advice to My 18-Year-Old Self

In a Facebook group I’m in, an 18 year old was feeling stressed and worried about school, work, and life. She asked for some advice and encouragement. I remembered being that age and worrying about those same things. I thought about what I’ve learned since then, and what I wish I could tell my 18…